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Of Quilts and Lighthouses

25/7/2018

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I learned some time ago that life is lived in small moments, in coffee on the deck in the morning, in a good book, in a moonrise or sunset, in Tuesday night dinner with the whole family around the table. I’ve also learned that it is important to celebrate successes and milestones, no matter how small. Life as a writer can be challenging, especially given how our craft opens us up to rejection and criticism and it is often difficult to separate self from art.
 
It’s been busy lately.  We’re renovating an old family home; selling the one we built 25 years ago where we raised our family. We’re packing (how did I collect so many books?!?!?), patching, painting, purging (but not books).
 
Through it all, we’ve paused to celebrate; my daughter’s engagement, the shortlisting of ​The Lightkeeper's Daughters for the Northern Lit Award and the longlisting for the HWA Debut Crown, the sale of our house. 
We’ve toasted the US release of the paperback and its hauntingly beautiful new cover, and its selection for “Books on the Subway” (https://www.booksonthesubway.com) and the Books Sparks Summer Reading Challenge (https://gobooksparks.com/src2018-week-7-2/)
 
This past week, we slowed life down to spend time with my husband’s mother, Eleanor, who was visiting us from Vancouver Island. We spent hours enjoying good food, great conversation and many games of Bananagrams (yes, they do sometimes beat me.) 

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And we quilted.
 
For the past year, the Pendziwol clan has been working individually to create squares that will be stitched together into a family heirloom. When it’s done, Eleanor will have a quilt for her bed, and every time she crawls under it, she will be wrapped in the love of her children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren, bringing us all together from the far flung corners of Canada to keep her warm. 
 
Eleanor shared with me that what has been even more meaningful than the prospect of the finished quilt is the time she’s been able to spend with each of us as we come up with ideas, sketch designs, choose fabric and stitch them (sometimes competently, sometimes less so) into personalized pieces of fabric art. And I will treasure the sight of my two 6’4” boys hunched over their great-grandmother’s sewing machine (that I inherited) learning from their grandmother how to sew.
 
I have to admit Eleanor arrived with a pattern for mine. But I picked the fabric. Sewed it together. And slip-stitched the rocky point (I only needed a small reminder how to slip-stich!) 
 
Yesterday I received copies of the mass-market paperback of ​The Lightkeeper's Daughters from the UK and I was struck by how reminiscent the cover is of my quilt piece. The rocky spit, the cold water, the promise of safety and shelter implied by the lighthouse perched there. I just have to imagine the two girls on the point; Emily and Elizabeth. But that’s not hard.

​They still inhabit me, even though I‘ve shared them with the world.

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Susan Rogers
25/7/2018 04:08:58 pm

What a lovely piece of writing: you've stitched together the personal and the professional and made a beautiful quilt of words. It stills my heart to visualize you and the three 'boys' creating a comforter for their grandmother.

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Jean E
27/7/2018 09:57:00 am

Thank you so much, Susan. And have pictures of the "boys" at the sewing machine with Nanny. My heart...

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Moss Hunt
25/1/2019 10:06:33 pm

Giday Jean, Just finished your remarkable story of the Lightkeeper's Daughters. You have a wonderful and very intelligent mind and most of all your compassion as a individual shows in every line you write. Your family must be very very proud of you. I am a 74 year old boy from Queensland Australia and take this moment to wish you all the success in your endeavors in the years ahead.
Kind regards. Moss Hunt

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Jean E
27/1/2019 10:48:30 am

How wonderful to receive such a warm message from "down under" on such a cold morning up north (it was -40C this morning...) I'm so glad you enjoyed The Lightkeeper's Daughters. And thank you for your encouraging message!

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Sylvia Jones
23/2/2020 04:05:45 am

Just finished your book The Lightkeepers Daughters and had to find a way of saying thank you for such a wonderful book. I have read many books in my life ( 73 years) but this is the first book that has caused me to immediately re read the whole book from cover to cover. It is so rich in the amazing descriptions of the landscape, so wonderful in the characters, so beautiful in the meanings of love and family that I wanted to take it all in again straight away. What a fantastic talent you have lady. This is the best book I have ever read that has touched me so much. Thank you

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Jean E
25/2/2020 01:12:04 pm

Thank you so much, Sylvia, for your kind words!!

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Kevin Smith link
15/7/2022 04:58:59 pm

She will be wrapped in the love of her children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren, bringing us all together from the far flung corners of Canada to keep her warm. I truly appreciate your great post!

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